There are several individuals who have heard mention of NLP (Neuro Linguistics Programming), although they don't know what it is. NLP is a method that works on the conjecture that people are able to change themselves by reprogramming their minds. The "linguistic" part of NLP involves the fact that the words we use have a lot to do with how we look at life. As you start to understand NLP, you'll start to see that you have the power to manipulate anything you don't enjoy about yourself or your life. The following are some of the favorable gains you can receive from NLP.
You can benefit tremendously by one particular concept that is known as, congruency, and many people have benefited from it's application. You can help yourself achieve the things you want if you are congruent, or consistent, in all aspects of your life. All parts of your life need to be consistent with who and what you are and what you want.
The point behind it is to be consistent (congruent) within your life if you want to achieve your potential, or your goals. You need to avoid being ambiguous about your goals; everything about you must spell out what it is you want to do. A simple example of not being congruent is when your body language doesn't match what you are saying. So it's really highly important to know exacly what your values and goals are, and then you can become congruent in all respects. It is more of a matter of degree because it could be the rare person who is totally and completely congruent. However it is important to know about this, and it will help you to look at yourself and learn more about yourself.
As you begin to learn more about Neuro Linguistic Programming, then your entire perception of people and the world around you begins to change. In communications, you learn to observe patterns of behavior with people; and that allows you to be more effective with talking to them.
Did you know, just as an example, that people have certain facial and eye expressions depending on certain thoughts they have? When someone is trying to remember something, they tend to look up and to the right. Of course other patterns have been established and recognized. These can be fairly complicated, and they often differ from left-handed to right-handed people, but once you learn about this, you can have a better idea of what people are thinking.
Modeling is a neuro linguistic technique that can be used to make improvements in any area of your life. Think about a particular worthy goal you would love to achieve; and then you find a someone who has succeeded at the same goal you have in mind. This can be someone you know personally, a celebrity, or even a historical figure. How did they do it? How did they get to where you want to be? You will have an easier time, maybe, if your choice is a famous, sort of, person only because there will be information available. It doesn't matter what you learn about them as long as it pertains to them - but pick the good stuff because they're human, too. You don't have to carry this too far, as no one is perfect and you don't want to imitate someone's bad habits, but by modeling yourself after a successful person you can more easily achieve the same results.
Neuro Linguistic Programming helps people to have control in their lives by showing them that they can change beliefs that are not really valid in anything from autos to writing. NLP is not something that gives instant results, but it does seem to be able to allow people to make positive changes in a fairly shorter period of time. If NLP is something you feel may be of good use for you, then we encourage you to find out more and do have the courage to take action for your life.
You can benefit tremendously by one particular concept that is known as, congruency, and many people have benefited from it's application. You can help yourself achieve the things you want if you are congruent, or consistent, in all aspects of your life. All parts of your life need to be consistent with who and what you are and what you want.
The point behind it is to be consistent (congruent) within your life if you want to achieve your potential, or your goals. You need to avoid being ambiguous about your goals; everything about you must spell out what it is you want to do. A simple example of not being congruent is when your body language doesn't match what you are saying. So it's really highly important to know exacly what your values and goals are, and then you can become congruent in all respects. It is more of a matter of degree because it could be the rare person who is totally and completely congruent. However it is important to know about this, and it will help you to look at yourself and learn more about yourself.
As you begin to learn more about Neuro Linguistic Programming, then your entire perception of people and the world around you begins to change. In communications, you learn to observe patterns of behavior with people; and that allows you to be more effective with talking to them.
Did you know, just as an example, that people have certain facial and eye expressions depending on certain thoughts they have? When someone is trying to remember something, they tend to look up and to the right. Of course other patterns have been established and recognized. These can be fairly complicated, and they often differ from left-handed to right-handed people, but once you learn about this, you can have a better idea of what people are thinking.
Modeling is a neuro linguistic technique that can be used to make improvements in any area of your life. Think about a particular worthy goal you would love to achieve; and then you find a someone who has succeeded at the same goal you have in mind. This can be someone you know personally, a celebrity, or even a historical figure. How did they do it? How did they get to where you want to be? You will have an easier time, maybe, if your choice is a famous, sort of, person only because there will be information available. It doesn't matter what you learn about them as long as it pertains to them - but pick the good stuff because they're human, too. You don't have to carry this too far, as no one is perfect and you don't want to imitate someone's bad habits, but by modeling yourself after a successful person you can more easily achieve the same results.
Neuro Linguistic Programming helps people to have control in their lives by showing them that they can change beliefs that are not really valid in anything from autos to writing. NLP is not something that gives instant results, but it does seem to be able to allow people to make positive changes in a fairly shorter period of time. If NLP is something you feel may be of good use for you, then we encourage you to find out more and do have the courage to take action for your life.
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