Monday, July 18, 2011

Death Of Love Through Cheating Text Messages

By Amie Rutledge


Texting is the exchange of brief written messages primarily between mobile phones via short message service (SMS). This service of text messaging is the most widely used data protocol in the world, with 2.4 billion participants. Sexting is the term popularized for the act of sending sexually explicit messages and images between mobile phones. Cheating text messages are secretive, damaging and emotionally destructive to a primary relationship.

The convenience of texting made mobile phone technology a valuable, irreplaceable communication tool. Instant camera access, as part of mobile phone devices, redefined worldwide communication capabilities. When used to relay pornographic, prurient or sexual images, mobile phone technology opened a can of worms with legal and moral implications.

Text messages live on in cyberspace forever where anonymity is a false assumption. The world is privy to revelations and betrayals that have destroyed marriages, careers and lives of the rich and famous. Tragic events have unfolded in teenage and college suicides after being the subject of sexual betrayal via phone technology and the internet.

Telecommunications today can be accomplished via voice or written messaging. Chexting is the definitive term for sexual exchanges via text messaging over mobile phones between an untrustworthy partner and an outside interest.

The dawn of the Internet age and the popularity of social networking has made 'airing your dirty laundry' a global event. It is easy and feels, deceptively, discreet and impersonal. The validity of viewing chexting as cheating is in the fact that seven states still allow spouses to file 'alienation of affection' suits against alleged paramours who have interfered in a primary relationship. Today there are search sites that scan the social networks tracking the suspected cheater's online trail of activities.

Alienation of affections does not require proof of extramarital sex to be a litigious offense. Validity is proven when a loving married relationship is negatively influenced by an outside third person's interference with one spouse victimized by the others lack of affection. The legal consequences give credence to the devastating impact of emotional betrayal on a committed relationship through sexual messaging to one or more extraneous parties.

Intimacy is damaged through breach of trust. Most couples desire honesty and openness in their relationship. It provides a sense of security and creates emotional bonding to the one who meets that need. When open communication is absent, trust is undermined and feelings of security in the future can be crushed. Cheating text messages keep secrets that damage intimacy, destroy trust and end relationships. Read more about: cheating text messages




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