Though you may have met people who are very difficult to get along with and they may be bullies or just your fellow co-workers hence you know about them it may not be impossible to get along as you think.
Unless you just swallow your pride and maintain your cool it may be impossible to interact with them normally. But simply not facing the issue or leaving the issue is not the only way out.
In dealing with those people some have been told to just brace themselves while others have been encouraged to smile at them. However by smiling at them you give a positive angle and hence this is more preferred.
By just smiling you may clear the tension and get the ball rolling though it may seem unreasonable. But when you smile let it be genuine, thinking about whatever part you like about them might help. And just may be they might beam back.
Though it may demand a lot from yourself you have to remember that they are not evil any way. Once you dig past their surface you may be amazed by what you find.
Do not be like everyone else who say that; it is easy to disk like peter if he is arrogant and kind of abrasive. Do what other do not even imagine try to like him.
You know that he feels insecure and that why he is arrogance and being in this new place where and people make him nervous might be what he is only trying to deal with.
In knowing a person and understanding where they are coming from it become very hard to hate them and such a person seizes to be the bad picture you had painted about them and turns into a person with real concerns. For we hate what we do not understand and do not lead us anywhere/butt in only take a little patience and heart to really see through those we do not understand to find out whom they really are.
Unless you just swallow your pride and maintain your cool it may be impossible to interact with them normally. But simply not facing the issue or leaving the issue is not the only way out.
In dealing with those people some have been told to just brace themselves while others have been encouraged to smile at them. However by smiling at them you give a positive angle and hence this is more preferred.
By just smiling you may clear the tension and get the ball rolling though it may seem unreasonable. But when you smile let it be genuine, thinking about whatever part you like about them might help. And just may be they might beam back.
Though it may demand a lot from yourself you have to remember that they are not evil any way. Once you dig past their surface you may be amazed by what you find.
Do not be like everyone else who say that; it is easy to disk like peter if he is arrogant and kind of abrasive. Do what other do not even imagine try to like him.
You know that he feels insecure and that why he is arrogance and being in this new place where and people make him nervous might be what he is only trying to deal with.
In knowing a person and understanding where they are coming from it become very hard to hate them and such a person seizes to be the bad picture you had painted about them and turns into a person with real concerns. For we hate what we do not understand and do not lead us anywhere/butt in only take a little patience and heart to really see through those we do not understand to find out whom they really are.
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